Love

"It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put into the giving." Mother Theresa


I absolutely LOVE watching my husband coach and the boys play, whom I have watched for basketball and baseball. Most of these boys I have watched for 2 seasons and I really enjoy their personalities and joy that they bring to my husband! They are very respectful and make me feel welcomed and wanted when I miss a game! Therefore, I could go to games just to go (like some other wives) but it means more when I go because I want to and love going! 


It takes a lot for me to be positive but it is very important to stay positive with a coach because there are many negative aspects to the job they have. No matter if you win or lose a game someone is never happy with a decision made by you, the coach. While watching my attitude I also have to watch what I say and do. Unlike the parents I cannot make comments about players and their efforts because I am the wife. 


Many times I struggle as a coach's wife but I wouldn't trade our life right now for anything else!